‘Died by suicide’ – Reviewing our phrases around suicide1 min

September 10 was World Suicide Prevention Day and so I thought to tailor this post around that.

I wasn’t so sure what to write though. I still am not but hoping that by the time this post ends, I would have come up with something coherent.

As we go into a more ‘politically correct’ world, several terms are being reviewed. While some seem cringe to me, others make more sense and I personally do not mind adopting them.

One of such is the rephrasing of ‘committed suicide’ to ‘die by suicide’.

The first time I came across this, I didn’t see the big deal. It felt like, the person killed themself and so why does it matter so much how that is presented. But more and more it has dawned on me that it is not that simple.

‘Committed suicide’ denotes a crime. The word ‘committed’ is typically used in relation to crimes. And we see this attempt at making suicide a crime clearly in the laws of some countries. Where someone who survives an attempt at killing themself is sentenced to prison. I wonder how this makes any sense to those who made the law.

‘Died by suicide’ is an attempt at removing that criminal aspect that is associated with suicide. Because suicide is not a crime. It acknowledges that they died by killing themself, but does not imply a crime.

Several things lead to a person deciding to kill themself. If anything, a suicidal person (or someone who has made an attempt) needs help than accusation.

Sometimes it may not make sense why they have decided to take that route, but being empathetic and less judgmental may have a great impact on how suicide is perceived.

While the person that has died has died, the way suicide is perceived can help those who are still alive. No matter what the reason is, for a person to be pushed to suicide must take a lot from them, mentally and otherwise. Empathising and assuring them that whatever is going on is not their fault can do some good.

As we go on into the year, let’s remember to be sensitive with our words and take a step back to think about what it can connote.

Mental Health is a real aspect of overall human health, and I am glad that it is getting more attention.