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Maintaining the pose of Thanksgiving https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/maintaining-the-pose-of-thanksgiving/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=maintaining-the-pose-of-thanksgiving https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/maintaining-the-pose-of-thanksgiving/#respond Wed, 31 May 2023 21:25:25 +0000 https://www.sisikunmi.com/?p=3952 I wrote this up in the notes app on my phone in early March but just getting around to posting it. A lot has happened since then and all my grand plans for the year haven’t exactly gone to plan but I am grateful to still be able to maintain a pose of Thanksgiving regardless. . . . On the morning that I shared the ‘testimony’ about my YouTube premium subscription, I was on a train going somewhere. After posting, I got on a call with one of my egbons. It was a long overdue call and I thought I could just take it on the train. But we somehow just kept chatting away and I didn’t realize when I passed the stop I was to change at. By the time I realised, it was too late. And because it’s not keke or danfo or a car that can turn around, there was nothing I could do. I saw the train manager and we started discussing options. After all the shalaye, the only available options involved me buying a new ticket. This sucked because I had paid the full fare for my train to my final destination. These were the options: It all didn’t make sense to me. The coach was practically empty so I could have been left alone. Thinking about it now, maybe I shouldn’t have called his attention to the fact that I missed my stop. Because he had checked my ticket earlier so he wouldn’t have checked it again. But that’s the fraudulent behavior we are trying to do away with in Nigeria. Anyway, I eventually paid the hooge sum and made my journey. What struck me was the fact that my very first thought was – thank God I have the card that has money in it on me. And second thought – thank God for provision. I kinda want to say it was the devil’s plan to shift me from Thanksgiving to being upset but I’m also like random things happen in life and we shouldn’t give the devil too much credit. Whichever way, it fenced in Thanksgiving. It’s not like the money didn’t pain me. There’s so much I could have used it for. But there was no point whining about it. My lesson is to pay more attention and if possible set an alarm so if I’m chatting or on a call, I am alert to my stop. The lesson doesn’t change the fact that I had to part with the money. It just helps me better cope and be grateful that I could afford to make the payment.✨ The above was written at 11:04 am. I thought I had been tested enough for the day but appaz more was in front. So, my destination from Derby was Stansted Airport. I was going on a weekend trip. I got to Stansted at about 11:30 am. After making my way through to the check-in point, I realised that I left my passport and BRP in my room😂😂 the only thing I could do was laugh. And then I cried. And then I started searching for possible flights for the next day. I I eventually sat at a restaurant in the airport, brought out my laptop, and just kept working until the time for my train back home. I didn’t even go straight home. I went to a friend’s place first because I just wanted to rest and be happy for a bit before I face the reality of my situation. I eventually made it to Greece sha. And you see the post on that here. This second time, it was so hard to ‘maintain the pose of Thanksgiving’. I kept wondering how I could have been so forgetful and careless about several things in the same day. But I tried to not dwell too much. Soooo, on getting back to the UK, I realized that I didn’t book a train from Gatwick to my city. I had a train booked from Luton but seeing as I had to change flights, that was invalid. So I spent another unplanned sum. I decided to make a tour of London as well while at it. I prefer not to recount how much this ‘budget’ trip eventually cost me. So I am taking this all as a lesson in endurance and all those other motivational stuff. I’m accepting donations to compensate for the money I spent on this trip. T for thanks. Stay joyful,Sisikunmi

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A trial at being consistent. https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/a-trial-at-being-consistent/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-trial-at-being-consistent https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/a-trial-at-being-consistent/#comments Sun, 01 Aug 2021 23:48:00 +0000 https://www.sisikunmi.com/?p=2779 Happy New Month!! So this is my second week of ‘writing and publishing blog posts weekly’ on the blog. And it’s not going as easily as I thought. Lol. This past week was really busy for me and the weekend, busier. I had to juggle so much but thankfully I bodied most of my tasks. I am also learning to make my to-do lists daily and prioritise better. On some days, this will mean less sleep and I am trying to come to terms with that. Among the many things I had to do this week was signing up at a gym. It’s something I have wanted to do for a while now but I just kept pushing forward due to several reasons. In the spirit of moving ahead with uncertainties, I decided to just get on with it. It’s been interesting so far. It hasn’t been up to a week yet but I think I will like it. Working out alone at home was okay, but being at the gym with other people and more equipment is a different experience. I hope to keep it up. On another note, I was on a blog sometime last week and I saw that the author has a new book he is reading every week. I proceeded to ask how such a busy professional can get that into his schedule and he graciously answered in this post. Since leaving the university, my reading game has dropped by some level and I am hoping to revive it. Hopefully, I will be able to apply some of those tips. This post is pretty short because I am really running against time. I decided to write regardless to ensure consistency. Have a pleasant August! Sisikunmi.

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On moving ahead with uncertainty https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/on-moving-ahead-with-uncertainty/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=on-moving-ahead-with-uncertainty https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/on-moving-ahead-with-uncertainty/#comments Sun, 25 Jul 2021 22:09:44 +0000 https://www.sisikunmi.com/?p=2775 ‘The need for certainty is the greatest disease the mind faces.’ – Robert Greene Sometime last week, I saw the above statement in a tweet posted by Ryan Holiday on my Twitter TL. PS: I saw the tweet while laying on the beachside of Miami, not from anywhere within Nigeria. There is still a Twitter ban in the country, even though FG says they didn’t stop Nigerians from accessing Twitter. Back to today’s post. The tweet, for some reason, resonated with me and I took a screenshot of it to view at a later time. I took another look at it just before I started writing this. Personally, I love planning things to the last item, because I am not exactly a fan of surprises. And when I plan, I expect that those things work out the way I have planned for them to unfold. I am increasingly learning that that is not always the case as so many things are out of our control. In the spirit of accepting the uncertainty that comes with living, I am choosing to move ahead even when I don’t know what the future holds. I am also training my mind to understand that the past can’t be changed, and I cannot know for certain what an alternate path or decision would have achieved. All I can ever have are guesses, which may be far from accurate. In some way, that’s the inspiration for writing a post today after a long while. Starting today, I would be sharing posts weekly. I have considered doing this for some time now but have been wary of either not having much to say or being very gloomy with my words. Accepting uncertainty in this regard for me would be trusting that I would have something to share weekly. And that ‘something’ would be uplifting, informational and/or thought-provoking without being pessimistic. I am writing this late on a Sunday night because I really just wanted to get to it and not let this week slide (does the week start on Sunday or Monday?) Lately, it’s like Monday shows up and the next thing another Monday presents itself. One last note tonight. In the past week, I have been getting prompters, from conversations with friends to articles I find online and newsletters, around the question ‘what do you want?’. It seems like a simple question and at some point in my life, I knew the exact answer to this, specifics and all. However, I am realising that it is a question we have to keep asking ourselves at intervals. The intervals could be between jobs, quarterly, annually, or whatever time frame is convenient. I also think an important indicator that we need to ask ourselves that question (and answer it) is when we feel unsettled in our current state. We most likely would know when we need to have a sitdown to answer it. I would spend the rest of the night attempting to answer the question for myself. It would definitely require more than a single night of introspection but it’s a good start anyway. I am excited that I was able to push myself to write this, however imperfect it may be. See you next week, Sisikunmi

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To doctor or not to doctor? https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/to-doctor-or-not-to-doctor/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=to-doctor-or-not-to-doctor https://www.sisikunmi.com/musings/to-doctor-or-not-to-doctor/#respond Thu, 01 Aug 2019 15:00:54 +0000 https://sisikunmi.wordpress.com/?p=129 During my time in Obstetrics and gynecology posting, I performed my first ceaserean section with assistance from a medical officer. I posted pictures of my time in surgery on social media and, as expected, I got so many positive remarks and all of that. I was elated to say the least. At the time of the surgery I was a bit scared and excited but it felt like just another thing. As I looked back at the pictures, remembering the moments in theater, my heart swelled with pride and I was truly HAPPY. As the day ended, with more likes trickling in, I felt a soft pull in my heart and I began to think, wouldn’t you miss all of this? For some time, I’ve been considering pursuing a non-clinical medical pathway which will mean that I will spend little or no time doing ‘doctor’ things like attending to patients and performing surgeries. It’s an idea that I’ve toyed with a lot and with each passing day, I get pulled more towards it. This desire is not born out of a hate for medicine or the practice of it. I know a number of people talk about the burnout in clinical practice, and that’s real. Some others talk about how people go into medical practice because of their parents or society and then hate it but because of the invested years, can’t switch to something else. That’s true too. In spite of all of this, I still believe that there are a lot of practicing medical doctors who love love their jobs. I totally love medicine. I’ve always wanted to be a doctor, whether that was burned into my mind by older people or influenced by society, I don’t know. While filling my JAMB form, I had the common problem that plagued Nigerian science students: Medicine or Engineering. When I couldn’t decide on my own I pushed it to God – I filled in Medicine and prayed, ‘God, if Medicine is not your choice for me let me not get in.’ The idea was, if I failed to get into Medicine on my first try, I’d fill in engineering the next year. Lol. Anyway, I passed the exams and made it into Unilag to study Medicine and Surgery on my first attempt without any ‘connects’ and it felt like God had called me to this. So imagine my dilemma when I wonder if I really want to be a doctoring doctor? After God has given me the opportunity to study this course for next to nothing. On my about page, I mentioned how non-clinical aspects of medicine is important to drive the clinical aspect. It just feels like uncharted waters. The path to clinical medicine is clear and secure, albeit difficult in its own way. Any other path isn’t as clear. So deciding to not follow that path is not an easy choice. As I’ve learnt over the past couple of months, there’s no path without a struggle. To excel in clinical medicine, as straight as the path is, is not a walk in the park. This true about almost any other field. I think plying an unconventional path is a bit more uncertain, especially in a country like Nigeria where there are little or no other options. There’s little room for being more creative or deviating from the norm here. I believe that’s also a reason why those who study courses that aren’t deemed professional (law, accounting, engineering, medicine…) have a harder time working in line with what was studied in their undergraduate years. This means that if I really intend to do this, I have to be more aggressive in my research and other steps I take in this regard. I’m still not 100% certain of what path to follow, due to various other reasons not stated here. I know that whatever path I choose will mean foregoing something that I could have gotten in the forgone pathway. It gets a bit overwhelming and scary sometimes but I try not to let it hold me down. I also know that growth is not static, and as I go ahead in life, I’d keep evolving, same with my interests. This is just something that has been on my mind for sometime and I just thought to share it. Someone out there might have a similar experience which they have overcome or are still experiencing, not necessarily in the medical line. If that’s you, I’d like to hear from you in the comment section below, or via my contact page. Thanks! Love, Sisikunmi.

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Halfway through the year https://www.sisikunmi.com/lifestyle/midyear2019/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=midyear2019 https://www.sisikunmi.com/lifestyle/midyear2019/#comments Sun, 07 Jul 2019 15:15:35 +0000 https://sisikunmi.wordpress.com/?p=338 Happy new month!!! I can still say that right?, even though we’re at the end of the first week already. Welcome to July and the rest of 2019! I decided to write a post on how my year has been, majorly as a way of checking in on myself and how the year has gone so far. If I were to score myself based on my set goals this year, I’d give me 1.5/10 now. I’ve slacked a lot but one thing I haven’t done is completely giving up on them. I’m also being deliberate about not waiting for a new year to reassess myself and set goals. Every new day is an opportunity to work on being better, you really don’t have to wait for a new year. I’d be sharing 6 things that I’ve done/have happened during the first 6 months of 2019. Compiling this post helped me realise how a lot can happen in such a short while. It really feels like eons ago when we started this year. Let’s get right into it. Since the start of this year, I’ve: Started this blog One of the things I planned to do more this year was share my writings. Initial plan was to share on my medium page. During a brief social media detox in January, I somehow decided to start a blog instead. It’s something I’ve always wanted to do but stayed away from because I wasn’t really sure what I should share and how much. I also had the ‘who will read it?’ question hanging around in my head. I’m glad that I took the plunge and started anyway. Since starting, I’ve gotten pleasant comments about my posts but in the comment section and other platforms. It’s been inspiring and makes me happy every single time. It never gets old. It’s great to have a space as this to share my thoughts and experiences. Moved ahead in my housemanship This year I’ve completed the first posting in my housejob year, finished the second one and I’m rounding up my 3rd posting as at the time. It’s been a good year so far in terms of work and I’ve changed hospitals once. It’s not typical to switch hospitals in the middle of the housejob year, but i did and I explained the how and why in this post here. Working as a doctor in a developing country such as Nigeria has been really trying and there are so many things wrong with too few people ready to change the status quo. It gets frustrating sometimes but there definitely are good moments. Seeing patients get better and patients showing appreciation for proper explanation of their condition among other things. I’ve had my fair share of scares in the course of work. I got to perform a ceaserean section as the lead surgeon during my obstetrics posting and I loved it! About 2 months ago, I had an experience that made me realize how dedicated one must be in the medical profession to truly deliver and be a good doctor. I was pretty shaken when it happened and I wrote about the experience here. I’m thankful for it though, as it helped me think more deeply about clinical medicine as a career option. I’m also thankful that a good number of the doctors (fellow HOs and senior colleagues) have been pleasant and I’ve found friends with some. I’ve heard some people’s experiences and it really sounds foreign. I hope it stays that way. I have about 14 weeks left to finish up the year (time really does fly. Haha!) and I hope to make the best of it. Read some books On my goodreads page, I set a goal of 30 books to read this year; I didn’t want to push myself too much in that regard given how busy being a house officer can get. I’ve been a bit inconsistent with updating my progress on there but I’d do that just before publishing this post so that you can get a look of what I’ve read this year (plus some reviews). I considered starting a review section on this space and even posted one here but I’m not sure yet if I’ll go ahead with it. So far, I’ve started about 20 books this year including fiction and non-fiction ranging from biographies to self development and finance books. Of that number, I’ve successfully completed 9 books (not including the ones I feel like I have completed because I have either schemed through or gotten the gist of the book). I don’t believe in forcing a book, no matter the hype. If I’m not feeling it, I drop it and pick it again in some weeks/months/years. Books that have stood out for me this year are: The Course of Love by Alain De Button which was sent to me by a friend. It gives a take on other side of love following the ‘happily ever after’ ending romance movies and fairy tales give. It was very different from other books on relationships that I’ve read and I got to see things in a different light. An Orchestra of Minorities by Chigozie Obioma also left me with some thoughts. I’d started it before when it was read in my book club but I picked it up again when this great guy, Oyor Okonkwor, got nominated in a competition based on an excerpt from the book. It’s a fictional novel which I’d summarize as a sad story detailing how love can turn ugly. I read shortly after the course of love so I guess that had some effect too. It wasn’t all love and romance for me in my reading though. The richest man in Babylon by George S. Clason is one book I’ve always wanted to read and finally got to. It’s a novel-like book which teaches about personal finance using stories. It’s a really old book but the lessons in there are ageless. Some reviews mention that most finance books are based on one or 2 principles from the book. It’s really short and I think everyone should read it. I’d be having a blog series next month based on lessons from the book so be on the look out. You can subscribe to this blog so that you can get notified once the post comes up. Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell was also a great read for me this year as it made me realize once again that success is hardly ever accidental. I’m currently reading The Tipping Point by same author and it’s been a good but tedious read so far. I have a reading partner on this and we pick certain chapters to read and discuss once a week which has made reading it more fun. You can view the rest of my reading list on my goodreads page, also please drop some reading recommendations in the comment section below. Merci beaucoup! Explored One of the things on my to do list this year was to travel (read explore) more. Seeing as I have a full-time job which doesn’t exactly come with benefits of international (or even national) travels, this hasn’t been easy. Most of my travels this year have even shuttling between Lagos and Ondo states. I also visited Eastern Nigerian sometime this year. Luckily for me, I was able to explore a bit sometime last month when I visited Erin-Ijesha waterfalls and that was fun. I wrote about that experience here. I hope to travel more in this half of the year and I’m working towards it. Got rejected Soooo… This one actually hurt and writing about it made my chest tight once again. I applied for something internationally and really really thought I’d get in; my confidence level was actually really up there. Looking back now, I’m not really sure why I was that confident seeing as there were about 8,000 other international applicants. I don’t think I should have been any less optimistic though. One thing I learnt from that experience was to do what I have to do without stalling or waiting for something to click. In a way, I was stalling on some other things I had to do because I was waiting for that to click. Going forward, I wouldn’t be like that anymore. As long as it’s in my power, I’d not stall for anything. One thing I know I’ve done a lot this year is looking forward to things in the future and not taking enough time to live in the present. I hope to curb that moving forward and live in the now more. It’s not so easy though, but I’m doing my best. Learnt, unlearnt, relearnt. This year has also been filled with a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. I’ve been a bit more introspective this year than the previous years, add that to reading more books and also being on twitter where people are constantly bickering. I’ve intentionally exposed myself to being a student of life in order to be a better me, for me and those around me. I think the hardest of this trio is the unlearning part but once I realised that humans are imperfect and I can’t always be right, I’ve decided to be more open (but deliberate) to things that challenge my stance. It has also helped me to know myself more. Learning is a lifelong process and I hope to always be willing to learn. There you have it folks. That’s a summary of the first half of 2019 for me. How has 2019 been for you so far? Do share in the comments section below. xOxO, Sisikunmi.

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On getting a housemanship placement https://www.sisikunmi.com/career/on-getting-a-house-job-placement/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=on-getting-a-house-job-placement https://www.sisikunmi.com/career/on-getting-a-house-job-placement/#comments Sat, 02 Mar 2019 20:26:12 +0000 https://sisikunmi.wordpress.com/?p=99 Welcome back to my space. 😀 So in my last post, I wrote about how I occupied myself post-graduation/pre-housemanship. This post is about how I got my housemanship placement in a place I never would have thought of. I started my housemanship programme in October 2018, about 3 months after I was officially inducted into the medical profession and roughly 6 months after writing (and passing!) my final professional exam in medical school. At the beginning of 2018, I never would have imagined myself doing my housemanship anywhere outside of Lagos, specifically LUTH. At some point before my induction, I got wind of another place other than LUTH to complete this compulsory 1-year programme (Lagos State HSC), which came with the promise of better working hours and better accommodation. I sat for the placement examinations and attended the interview however, I didn’t get in. I was later offered a placement there but on a supranumerary basis meaning, I’d be working without getting paid. That didn’t sound like a great deal to me and I wasn’t in a hurry to start the programme anyway so I declined. All this while, LUTH was yet to employ new houseofficers so I was just chilling for them while enduring every new info of ‘the list is coming out next week’. Luckily for me, around that period, I got an offer to be the medical doctor for a promotional campaign team which I accepted. I wrote about that here. Before I left Lagos for the campaign, I randomly applied for a housemanship placement at UNIMEDTH, Akure. I didn’t really believe that I’d accept a job outside of Lagos because I was almost certain at that point that LUTH will offer me a job, so my application was just something to do to ensure that I didn’t have all my eggs in one basket. I was called for an interview in the 4th week of the campaign as soon as I got to Ibadan which was the last city on our list. I got the message on a Sunday and the interview was on a Tuesday. I had to figure out how to get another doctor to cover for me at the campaign site so that I could leave Ibadan for Akure on Monday in order to meet up for the interview. I was lucky enough to have a classmate who lived close to the hotel where we were lodged at Ibadan and he agreed to cover for me for that period. The journey to Akure that night (I didn’t leave Ibadan till around 5 pm) was actually a horrible one, it rained heavily as soon as our bus left the pack and it continued raining all the way to Akure. The bus had a leak in the roof just above my seat  at the back of the bus so I was completely drenched by the time I alighted. Other events happened along the way, like when the cartons of chicks the driver carried in the boot to deliver to someone at Akure fell off the road because the cartons got soaked and tore (remember the leak). We were notified about 15 minutes after the unfortunate event by another driver who waved us down. Our bus driver then had to pack the bus and take a bike in the rain back to the junction where it happened. He was lucky to get some of the chicks back and we then had to put the chicks inside the bus. The rest of the journey was punctuated with the sounds of chicks making whatever noise chicks make. The bus also broke down about 1 hour away from Akure andt I was already irritated partly because I wasn’t even sure I wanted to get a job outside of Lagos and I was just going for this interview to be safe. I just couldn’t get angry because it would have been pointless. All I could hope for was that the interview went well because at that point, I had read nothing to prepare. I also knew nothing about the current affairs of Ondo State which I heard will be part of the interview questions, apart from the medically related ones. I eventually got to Akure around 9 pm, ate, showered and slept. The next morning I got ready on time in order to revise some things and familiarize myself which the affairs of Ondo State. I got to the interview venue and went to see one of the staff who helped me to submit my application form (I couldn’t have left Lagos to come all the way to Akure just to submit a form, and the application process wasn’t online). I told him I hadn’t revised anything so he proceeded to tell me the names of some prominent personalities in Ondo State, as well as the CMD and PS of UNIMEDTH, Akure. I later went to join the other applicants waiting for the interview and mingled with them. It was kinda new for me because I generally always had my classmates or friends around for such things but here in Akure, I didn’t see anyone I knew, from my medical school or otherwise. Fortunately for me, one of the ladies I met finished recently from LASUTH in Lagos, her cousin was also my classmate so we were able to get off on a good note. She took me to meet some of her classmates from LASUTH and in the process, I revised with them over the current affairs and medical stuff and even made some new friends. In typical Nigerian style, an interview slated for 9 am didn’t start until well past 12pm (which some will say is even a good time considering that other placements can keep you waiting till 4 pm. Unbelievable!). I was eventually called in around 12:45pm. We were about 25 all seated in a room with 6-8 assessors at a table in front of us. We were to pick one question each from 2 bags, one medical and one current affairs and stand as we echoed the answers out to a room full of strangers who will hear your pus or your stuff, which ever you ended up moving. My heart was literally in my mouth at this point because I had heard different people’s questions while waiting. Some had medical questions painting a clinical scenario and asking how it could be managed. At that point it was already like 5 months post exams and I hadn’t read anything medically related in a while, save for what I revised that morning. The current affairs questions I heard were also another cause for alarm as peple were asked weird things not even related to Ondo state, like who was the first professor of mathematics in Nigeria and what year NYSC was established. I didn’t understand the purpose of such questions but it wasn’t in my place to understand at that point. I just hoped to the heavens that I would get a reasonable questionable (which I knew the answer to). The lady I met earlier was sitting immediately before me and as she went to pick her questions my heart kept pounding. I can’t remember what her medical question was but I will never forget what the current affairs question was – mention 2 types of family unit. I was dazed at that point and she will later tell me that she herself almost burst out laughing. It was finally my turn to pick my questions and I said a quiet prayer as I walked up to the day, picked my questions and handed them over to the examiner. My heart rate at that point must have been approaching 120 bpm because I could almost hear my heart beating. My medical question was to define and state the difference between maternal mortality ratio and maternal mortality rate. I immediately remembered the tutorials and lectures I had in Obstetrics and Gynecology in 400 and 600 Levels where these terms were defined and differentiated. I couldn’t remember the exact definitions of both terms but I knew the basic difference. I also knew that we used MMRate in Nigeria due to the lack of a proper census system, one of the many inadequacies of our country. So I rattled off what I could about the definitions, stated the differences and ensured that I indicated which was used in Nigeria and the reason why. One of the examiners wanted to protest my definition but the others agreed that it was fine and I heaved a sigh of relief. My next question, the current affairs question, was to name the head of service of Ondo State. Luckily for me the man I mentioned earlier who helped submit my application had mentioned the name to me that morning and I said it with confidence – Mr Akinpotu. The personal who protested my first answer stated that it was ‘Barrister’ and not ‘Mister’ but once again, the others came to my defense that it made no difference. I felt blessed. It was time to submit my credentials, license and statement of results and then I noticed that I had one important document missing. I had had my documents sent via public transport to Akure from Lagos as they were not on me when I left Lagos for the campaign trip. Luckily for me, right from my first year in the university, I made the habit of always uploading my important documents to my mail so that I could have access to them at anytime and anywhere. So I pleaded with the board of examiners to allow me go print it out from my email and they obliged. At the printing shop, there was an issue with their internet connection and even though I had downloaded it on my phone by then, I couldn’t send it to the system any way because I was using an iPhone at the time. My battery was at 5%, I didn’t come with my charger and no one had an iPhone charger nearby. I was distraught at that point because each document carried some marks and if I didn’t get to submit, I would lose marks, also there was no proof that I finished from medical school and passed all my exams. At that point the lady I met at the interview called to ask me where I was. We had exchanged numbers before going in but I had completely forgotten at that point. I told her my predicament and asked if I could send it to her via whatsapp so she could connect her phone to the system or send via Bluetooth to the printer since she used an android. She agreed and I immediately sent it. Shortly after, my phone battery died. I was happy to have been able to send it to her before it did. I was eventually able to print out my document and take it back in time to the board room for submission. All this while, I still wasn’t sure if I wanted to leave Lagos to live in Ondo. I did the interview just because.I went back to Ibadan to join the rest of the campaign team and proceeded to Lagos at the end of that week. Two weeks after returning to Lagos, I got a call from Tolu telling me that she got a call from the HMB of Ondo state that she had been offered successful at the interview and offered a housemanship placement. I hadn’t gotten a call from them yet and my phone was switched off all day so I assumed that I was probably called and my line was switched off. I didn’t want to think of the other possibility. The next day my mom helped me to check for my name on the list at the HMB office and I received the news that I was also offered a housemanship placement. I wasn’t sure if my performance at the interview influenced my placement or...

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Post graduation: What now? https://www.sisikunmi.com/career/97-2/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=97-2 https://www.sisikunmi.com/career/97-2/#comments Sat, 02 Mar 2019 20:19:14 +0000 https://sisikunmi.wordpress.com/?p=97 This post is about my post-graduation/pre-housejob experience and how I was able to keep myself busy all those long months. I sat for (and passed!) my final professional examinations in medical school in April 2018. As with many other students, both medical and otherwise, it was such a relief to FINALLY be done with school – all the late night reading, exams and waiting anxiously for results to come out. Even though a lot of older colleagues will always say things like “just the beginning”, “reading never ends” and all the other similar stuff, at that moment, it was just enough to know that I was done with that phase and could move on to other things in life. I was finally free to do whatever, whenever. It was bliss. This bliss lasted all of a couple of weeks before it turned to boredom. I’d like to state here how fleeting the happiness achievements bring can be. Don’t get me wrong, I totally dig having achieving your goals and ticking stuff off your year plan/bucket-list. However, we can all admit that the ‘high’ we get from achieving these goals, never lasts forever. This is what motivates us to do more and exceed our set target. It is the reason why after becoming a medical doctor, you want to become a resident then a consultant (and the equivalent in other professions), and even at that level you still want to be more. This goes to show that attaching your happiness to a particular achievement, although it could be a great motivation, can be harmful in the long run. My days became routine-like, with nothing significant to fill them up and I just couldn’t wait to be inducted and start my housemanship year. As the boredom set in, I tried to find some productive things to fill my days with. I had foreseen this turn of events and had a number of things planned to occupy myself in my enforced free time. Although I didn’t get to do all, I was able to do a few which kept me occupied. In my pen-ultimate year as an undergraduate, I had to conduct a research as part of the requirements for graduating. I got to present my research findings at local and international conferences, although I eventually didn’t get to publish it in a journal. I found that I enjoyed the process to an extent and didn’t find it as difficult as some of my classmates. So prior to writing my final exams, I reached out to a colleague who was into research and asked if I could learn more under him and he accepted. I also took an online course on Cousera and got my certificate for free (I applied for a waiver and got it!). I learnt quite a lot this period (and also made some money) and I was glad I took that step. While still learning more about research, I reached out to one of my consultants who had mentioned while I was still in his unit as a medical student that he would need research assistants for a project he was working on so I got involved in that too. This was a bit tasking because it involved data collection (which is one of the most tedious aspects of carrying out a research) but I carried on with it because I didn’t have so much else doing, plus I was earning from it.  All this while, I was chilling on LUTH to release their houseofficers’ list while also attending interviews and looking out for other openings. There was always news that the list of successful candidates will be pasted ‘soon’ – this soon could be “the end of the week”, “in 2 weeks’ time” and so on but that list still never came at the stated time. The last major activity I got involved in prior to starting my housejob was a promotional campaign where I was the team medical doctor, offering basic check-ups and medical advice. The campaign required travelling with a team of about 6 other people, including one nurse, to 7 South-Western Nigerian cities – Akure, Ado-Ekiti, Oshogbo, Ile-Ife, Ilorin, Offa and Ibadan – within a period of 4 weeks. It seemed like fun but I also had some reservations because I could get called by LUTH at any time and will need to resume in like 2 weeks and being so far away from Lagos then wouldn’t be a good idea. In spite of my reservations and after consulting with some friends, I decided to take the plunge and accept the offer and handle anything that came along the way. The campaign experience was a good one, I got to travel, meet new people and speak lots and lots of Yoruba. I am glad I didn’t pass up on the offer because of LUTH as the long awaited list didn’t come out while I was on the trip. Post ‘roadtrip’, I decided to take time out to rest a bit while also taking up some other research jobs. In retrospect, I realize that most of the things I did were research related and also involved making some money on the side. I also did some work on finding out more about different aspects of medicine in order to figure out what I want to do going forward. I haven’t honed in on my specific field yet but my choices have been informedly narrowed now, thanks to my search. About two weeks after I got back, I received a text from a friend saying that she got a call from an organization that we had both been interviewed by the Health Management Board, Akure for housemanship placement (I had applied there while waiting for LUTH – putting my eggs in different baskets, and went for the interview in the middle of my ‘roadtrip’). I panicked initially because my phone had been switched off all of that day so I didn’t receive any call. I called my mom and she helped me visit the office and found that my name was on the list of employed applicants. I was relieved. Concerning this job offer, I was elated and worried at the same time. Elated because I finally had a job, worried because I didn’t want to leave Lagos, for several reasons. Thankfully, I had a period of one month to consider accepting the employment offer before it could be revoked so I used that time to stylishyly wait for LUTH while also preparing myself mentally to relocate to a new state for my housejob. Three weeks later, LUTH finally sent out their highly coveted employment text messages – and I didn’t get one. I was shocked for some moments because I really thought I’d get it but I immediately got over myself and thanked God that I had a job already which made the experience less painfully. At that point, I didn’t have a choice anymore as getting housejob placements didn’t exactly come easy so I prepared and got ready to move out of Lagos for 12 months. I said my goodbyes, packed my stuff and boarded a bus to Ondo State to begin another phase of my journey. Housejob: Also known as housemanship. A period of one year (two in some countries) during which newly inducted medical graduates are assigned to hospitals and trained under consultant doctors (with many more years of experience and certifications). LUTH: Lagos University Teaching Hopital.

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